Ever stared at a hot guy next to you and skipped a beat?!
Oh, we all had done that, didn’t we?
Or what about that girl in the mall whose air of elegant sexiness you just couldn’t admire enough?
*Still wondering how she donned it*
What if someone showers you with similar attention and drop dead at your gorgeous oomph?
Awesome! Right? That’s true and that’s nature. We all want to look good . But how come some people nail it so well?
It isn’t important to be born with it always!
Sexiness can be acquired!
Yes you read that right!
So what if you don’t look like that mannequin displaying your desired clothes? Or isn’t the owner of an hour glass body and fuller lips like Monroe?
We all are perfectly unique with our imperfections! The trick is to conceal some and be confident about the rest.
We all want to be a head turner. But of course we don’t want people to assume that we spent hours to be that. Nothing attracts more than natural sexiness and that has nothing to do with how pretty you are! Sexiness and prettiness may not co-exist and it’s perfectly fine if they don’t! Lack of perfect features shouldn’t resist that hot guy you crushed on from crushing on you! And here’s the secret “you don’t have to try much! You can look sexy without trying”
Just be in sync with the natural you, the real and unique YOU and let your inner and outer oomph flow! Sexiness is a celebration of this!
Follow these simple yet surefire tricks and go from ordinary to sexy in no time! Get going and celebrate the inner sex goddess in you!
#1. LOOK GOOD, FEEL GOOD!
Yes it is that simple. Hit the gym, or the road, sweat and have a gorgeous physique. This may sound shallow but helps a lot when it comes to looking sexy. A great body assures greater fit to your clothes and makes you feel good about yourself. It instinctively sets the opposite sex drooling and before you know much, just a sway of those hips can do wonders! It will notch up your confidence in no time and make you look like a glam god!
#2. TAKE PROPER CARE OF YOURSELF
That includes revival of all the sessions of pedicure, manicure, hair spa and sauna you missed (read: let go deliberately) and started panicking or hitting Google on realizing that your high school skin has long deserted you! Hectic schedules, work load, stress or examinations wreaks havoc on our beauty regimes which undergoes considerable negligence. To be sexy, you need to be in touch with the long neglected natural beauty of yours that needs dire attention! Eat healthy, drink plenty of water and splurge on that classy cream or perfume you think suits you best! Get a flattering hairstyle and if required give your wardrobe a much needed revival! Ah, that takes us to the next most important place, your wardrobe!
#3. ” DRESS LIKE YOU’RE GOING TO MEET YOUR WORST ENEMY TODAY”
Remember these words by Coco Chanel? Always be at the best of your style. Wear clothes that fit you well and look good on you. The ones you think will not require a pull up or a patting each time you take a turn. Know your body type and dress accordingly. To your help, science proves that wearing red makes women look sexier! The color red triggers fertility and sexual attraction in brain thereby alluding a woman wearing red sexier than the rest! Ditch the LBD for LRD? You may well consider that!
#4. BUY SEXY LINGERIE!
Now this may sound a little flashy, especially since that little wonder will stay hidden beneath your clothes, but believe me, half the sexiness comes from inside. Like, literally! If you know that you’re wearing something fabulous inside your clothes that is making you feel sexy, be sure,that’s reflecting on the outside. Choose from lace or silk and go for it, an underwear is the easiest thing that can make you feel immensely sexy.
#5. NO MAKEUP, MESSY HAIR OR NUDE TO THE WONDER!
Men find that “no makeup look” extremely sexy! For that emits an air of originality they find immensely attractive. Sounds excellent for the ones who hate wearing makeup, but for the rest? Nude to the rescue! Just highlight your eyes and lips and leave the rest to his imagination. You will be irresistible! To pump up the oomph, let your hair loose,messy. You may let them down or tie them in a loose bun. Either way, men find messy hair intensely sexy.
#6. BE YOURSELF. TUNE IN WITH THE INNER GODDESS WHO RESPECTS AND LOVES HERSELF AND HER LIFE!
In an effort to impress others we often miss out the three most important things. Self love, self respect and self approval. Respect yourself, know your worth and hold yourself in high esteem. Stay amidst people who respect and love you. That helps us feel better about ourselves. Love the life you live and look for the silver lining in every situation. Did you ever see a gloomy person looking good? No, right? Being happy and lively helps people get attracted to you! We are attracted to happy mates in whose presence we feel joyous.
#7. KNOW THAT YOU ARE SEXY! JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!
Remember that song by Bruno Mars?! “Girl you’re amazing, just the way you are” he was right! Each one of us is amazing with our unique physical and mental attributes! As the saying goes, attitude is half the battle won, the moment you start believing that you’re sexy nothing can stop you from being one! Our thoughts take us where we want to be, so the moment you start believing that you’re sexy, kudos! you’re almost there! Feel like a sex goddess always! Be complacent of your femininity and know that you are one sexy lady men will die for.
#8. THE RIGHT BODY LANGUAGE!
Once you have mastered the tricks to present yourself attractively and let the opposite sex be stunned by you, bold them out with the proper body language. Flirt, look straight into the eyes and express yourself! Knowing to flirt can be your savior while conversing with the opposite sex and that combined with an emotive gesture will be impeccably tempting! Let the words flow and wits capture his mind!
#9. BE MORE THAN THE WOMAN OF LOOKS, THE WOMAN OF INTELLIGENCE AND TALENT:
While the aforesaid things will get a man attracted to your sexiness and keep him enticed to you, the depth of your charms will keep him hooked! Hone your skills and nurture them. Be beautiful not only from the outside but also from within. Talent is sexy, so is intelligence. Read a little everyday and keep yourself updated, apart from adding value to the conversations it will add you to a league of Cleopatrian wonders having both beauty and brain that no man can ever resist!